Speaking about her relationship, one client recently referred to it as being "perfect in its imperfection". This kind of acceptance is one of the hallmarks of therapy. It does not mean giving up, it does not mean not caring: it is an acceptance of the current reality in a way which still allows for exploration, movement and change. It is about appreciation of the 'now', even if one wants a different 'now'. It is a starting point for growth. Yet another precious insight from a client!